And the GUILT again suggests he KNEW he was cheating...
I am going to suggest you also ask your lawyer to include a "no paramour" order in place if you can do this in yoru state.. it disallows your WH from exposing your son to OW..
You need some good truth darts to throw at him.. statements.. NO ARGUMENT is going to sway him once he's addicted.
I could be wrong, but I have seen so many people on this forum discover the affair started MUCH SOONER than they thought it did... NONE of them wanted to believe it...
Q : How did you find out about his affair? What work have you done to trace back the timeline to confirm teh info is accurate and complete?