LOL good point. I'm just putting out there what he would say, and trying to figure out the reality - and what I really think. I agree with you.
He also yelled and screamed at me for hours a couple of times when I stated that my lawyer suggested we move the separation date up to later - now I see it was because he didn't want to legally be "cheating" before we were legally separated.
Anyhow legally it doesn't make too much difference - in my state anyone is free to file for D if they want and "infidelity" can't be used in the case.
And I also see that he didn't want to file for D first because he was afraid of an expensive D - he wanted to persuade me into having a legal sep agreement that was uncontested and to use in a D. Case. Now I am opening it back up for more custody under "best interest of the child" which I can do at any time, even post D. He's going to flip out when he sees I"m starting an expensive D case.
