Last week during mediation stbx hurled a threat that I needed to accept her having custody with me getting only visitation rights or she would "move out and take the kids with her 100% of the time."
After the mediation, I notified my L.
My L sent a letter to her L.
stbx's L chewed out stbx.
And stbx spent most of yesterday raging at me and trying to goad me into a fight.
Uncomfortable since, because it was my day with the kids, I couldn't just leave the house. She of course refused to leave.
Every time she'd start up with it again, I'd get up and walk into another room.
She'd follow.
I finally went into my room and shut the door.
She opened it and then refused to leave my room - effectively blocking my exit because I refuse to come anywhere near her. There's no way I'm going to let her set me up for false assault charges.
So I ignored her - straighened up the room while she spewed at me - until finally she stormed off.
Her spew is transparent - almost 100% a projection of her own fears and emotions. It is stressful, however, and I'm concerned that she could to escallate it.
I've notified my L.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
