Quite honestly I don't know. I'm not going dark. I'm not REALLY trying to detach either, though maybe I should. The thing is that he's not suggesting a divorce or openly pushing for it, so I can't even give him the "letting go" speech. "Officially" we're making plans for vacation together in January (he booked it a few days ago) and he mentions plans for "once I move to where he is" as if this was to happen in a month or two. But at the same time he drops lines like "we shouldn't have gotten married" etc and makes no real moves towards getting me there (he needs to sort out paperwork). So really I don't know where is up and where is down in this.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
