I'm sure I'll hear the "I was thinking about getting back together with you..." line. So manipulative.
DOING THE RIGHT THING. Not always clear. Is doing the right thing confronting her or pulling way the hell back and not speaking with her and let her go. You've mentioned both and that I should confront first. Torn. Some of the things said on the link including letting her family members know of the OM will humiliate her and end any chance pretty quickly it would seem.
