You think he left you THEN picked up OW? Seriously?

You know how old that story gets?

Sorry be the one to break this to you, but it is very often the case that the OW is the one that pushes your H out the door in teh first place.

The WH keeps THAT a secret and brings her out AFTER he moves out for a while...

Sorry, but I don't buy this "she's new, never knew her before I moved out" story for a second... That lie is getting so old it should have a copywright stamped on it.

He thinks its time to be honest NOW?

No, what he means is its time to attempt to get everyone in our circle of friends to accept OW... I say YOU get to them first and ask tehm all to turn HER AND HIM AWAY and denounce their infidelity...

Expose your H to his family and your circle of friends NOW before he tries to introduce her... RUIN the whole thing and drag his "girlfriend" through the mud...