What you are going to find out is whether or not you want to keep trying. My DBing efforts began to make a difference once we seperated. You just took all the pressure off her, it's both relieving and scary for her. Let her own it. Go about your business.
Yup. Pressure should be off now. Her own words "I cannot look at our relationship if you don't let me go".
So if she wants to "look at our R" I can't be hovering around.
She also seems to have a strange idea how she wants to proceed. Fixing up the house and trying to sell it could take another 6 months. Am I suppose to still live there?
Is she thinking that good old Pookie will come over to work on the house and spend time with the dogs periodically while she is trying to find a way to "look at our R"? Does that make any sense? She could not wait to get me to agree to move out, now she wants to stretch this further.
I'm about to tell her that I will move out of the country. (Yes, I've thought about that too)
