I'm new. Feel free to totally disregard everything I have to say. . . . .
In my reading, your W is screaming out for a change. Anything. OM, D, different lifestyle, something. I would think short and hard about what you want. If your W was gone tommorow, where would you go? What would you do? Suggest it? It could be simple - Do you think this room would look better painted red? Maybe we should visit Guatamala? I was thinking about getting my pilots license. . . . .Just something, slightly unusual. See how she responds. Suggest something unusual that you want to do. Be ready to follow up on it, but see if she has ANY reaction. . . .
Your original post was so matter of fact. So resigned. So . . . boring. Think about what you want to do, and see if she follows.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
