Regarding the lawyer: Yes, I retained a lawyer in December. However, I recently dismissed my lawyer so I could get the retainer funds back. I already responded to the original summons and already signed the dissolution agreement. There is nothing for my lawyer to do (unless something changes).
I don't know about contact with the OM. Wife says she is no longer in contact but I have no way of knowing for sure. It is certainly a possibility and would explain the things-are-good-things-are-bad cycle I am in.
I still want to save the marriage but it seems entirely out of my control.
Last edited by mrbt; 09/07/1004:50 PM.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
