It just struck me that without really realizing it I have moved from 'Oh,God, how do I save my marriage?" to "OK,CD. This is unacceptable. It's time to save your dignity and honor'
"Do, or not do" Yoda from The Empire Strikes Back
What do you plan to do, CD? Actions speak far louder than words. Again, we all realize that you will do this on your own time. Yet at the same time prolonging this could potentially reduce the "shock" factor for W. Your call, buddy.
Interesting perspectives on what consitutes honor, integrity, and character. To me:
Honor: Action or a state of being that endears trust within yourself and from others. Doing something honorable means taking some action steps benefits yourself and other people.
Integrity: This can be closely interwined with honor. Some would argue it is an internal moral compass. Conduct brings about respect from self and others on a consistent basis.
Character: How you carry yourself in all of your interactions. You've all heard this..."What a character!" when describing people like Paris Hilton. Need to say more? No.
Sunny:
I think forgiving is a process that is dependent on the action and/or incident. If someone broke your vase, the forgiving phase may be a lot shorter than if your spouse betrays you with an affair. It all goes back to the level of investment in the item or person. One could make the argument that it is a type of attachment. It is a matter of perspective.
