If she denies it again, do I show her the emails? I will confront her about the OM and have before but she said he was just a friend. I will be more forceful but if I pull out the emails, she'll know where I got them from.
Sorry to be blunt, bk, but what part of NEVER REVEAL THE SOURCE(S) OF YOUR INTEL!!!
didn't you understand? I take the time to bold things for a reason.
All you have to say, if she starts with the "we're just friends" thing, is: (putting your hand up in the "STOP" position): "Stop it. We BOTH know you're lying right now, and it's incredibly disrespectful. I know all about you and _________ , and what you're doing, and I'm telling you, I WILL NOT LIVE IN AN OPEN MARRIAGE. Do with that information what you will, but I'm not going to stand here and have you lie to my face."
