I get that, but haven't you said that you have done this before?? This cycle of breaking up then getting back together. Do you want this dynamic to continue? Regardless, of what you think is happening it's NOTHING NEW. She is going to continue cheating as long as YOU show her by YOUR ACTIONS that it's ok. Which is EXACTLY what you have been doing.

Being optimistic is great. If it was your first time down this road. Fool me once.... but you have been down this road many times according to what YOU have wrote. If that's true then once again good luck with things changing THIS TIME.

PMA