John - I'm not sure what you think you're doing. The majority of the advice you have received on here suggested you STOP PURSUING and DETACH, but for some reason YOU have chosen to IGNORE it. What part of this strategy has worked before??
YOU are far from fixing this M. YOU are still trying to convince your WAW to give you another chance. Why?? She is a serial adulterer and YOU are chasing her. She has you wrapped and she knows it. Until you gain back the RESPECT and CONTROL of the R she will continue manipulating you with her immature, high school games.
Not sure what you're expecting to happen at retro, but your WAW is far from where she needs to be in order to really WANT to DO THE WORK because you haven't DETACHED and made her MISS/WANT YOU.
Like some other fellow members on this site. I'm not one to blow smoke. Divorce is serious business and I dont play games. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear. Especially if you are not following the HARD-EARNED ADVICE you have been lucky enough to receive.
