Originally Posted By: puppy
A man's honor and his integrity are NOT just internal.


Semi-agree they begin with his own honor, his actions based on his honor are his external expression of that.

Originally Posted By: CD
cuckold


I would say that you are not consenting because right now you are not living with her, she does understand you will not live in an open marriage.

If you accept someone elses definition that you are a cuckold, then you are.

If you are afraid of someone calling you a cuckold then you act not from honor, but from fear.

Maybe in olde days one's response would be to put a chastity belt on your fair young maiden or

...Have her beheaded!

Kinda makes you wish for those times again eh?

If your expression of your boundary and your honor is to divorce your W, then do it.

It is one answer CD and all I am saying is make sure it is yours and that you understand why it is.

If you are unsure then you will be unsure about your honor and your integrity

and yourself.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am