Sounds like he's drowning. Which is NOT your problem. He's saying he wants the M over with, then says he's filing for D, then says he has no $ to file D, all conflicting statements. Again, not your problem. My advice to you is when he says he "may" come over, don't state things like "oh so if your other plans fall through then you will be over." Act "as if." Rght now you need to show him you are moving on. This is a manwho has told you to your face taht he was propositioned for sex at work and that he would be going through with the sex! And is living with another W right now. Have you seen a L yet?