She called me the first night that I had the kids and asked how things were going. I said fine, the kids had fun. She wanted to talk to them about their first day of school and I said ok, but D is already in bed. W says, yeah, she didn't sleep much last night. I don't know if she was nervous about school or about staying over at your house or what (D was fine at my house). She also said that she was very tired too and that she hadn't slept hardly at all the previous night.
All the she's confuses me. I can make assumptions (and try to read from context) ie W said D was very tired or W said "I hardly slept last night"....Dbing for me also includes clearer communications.
They were both tired and hadn't slept. W has told me numerous times now how W isn't sleeping well. I stopped by our house about 11:45am on Saturday to pick up a few things. I rang the bell and waited and waited. Almost thought nobody was home, but her car was in the garage. She finally came to the door and she looked HORRIBLE. If I didn't know better, I'd have thought she was dying. She looks like a skeleton with huge red pimples on her face. If I didn't know her for 23 years, she is not someone I would choose to date at this point!!
I asked her if she had still been in bed and she said yes, she didn't sleep hardly at all last night and had moved to D's bed to try to sleep. I think the bed is softer. She invited me in, I got the couple of things that I needed and then left. We only chatted for a few minutes. I should probably be more worried about her, but I just don't feel it. I guess all the BS that has gone on has really caused me to detach. Too bad for her, but I am moving on with my life with my kids.
