A new beginning to an end

[soleil]

^ Haha. Yes we do all have that moment where it's like, What the hell was I putting up with for so long?

Had a lovely weekend. I did not respond to stbx's Fri "living well text" ever and last night he texted me this:

I'm not happy and I never will be. I feel depressed and empty... And love was never the problem. I never lost the love for you.

...so he loves me so much he's D'ing me? What in the world? I didn't respond to that text either. Should I? What would I say? I feel bad that he's feeling bad yet at the same time, he is divorcing me. We have court in four days re: the home/$ which will set the tone for our D.

Advice?

YOU DESERVE BETTER!! Make a new life for yourself without this A-hole! In fact, join me in my plans for freedom! New Years in NY, Mardi Gras in February, and some place in Europe next summer.

Hey, now. This sounds like a lot of fun. I have never been to Nawleans!

If he has something to say why not be a man and say it without mincing words.

...Is what I'm saying!

A cute lab partner who's been divorced? care to ellaborate? I'm wondering if someone's been keeping secrets!

What are you studying btw? I mean in class not in the lab

Hehe. Not keeping secrets. I just started this class 2 weeks ago and that was my 1st lab. This guy just walked up to me and asked me if he could use my book and we decided to work together. I had never met him before. But it doesn't hurt to have an attractive lab partner. I am studying for n ursing, btw.

Leave him be, you've said your piece (I think we all do at some point) and now you need to let it go.

Noted! I do feel better for saying my piece. I agree with you all about how we think we can find the right words and some miracle will happen but well... it doesn't. Oh well. C'est la vie. It's still nice to get the words off our chests.