I guess the reason that is is letting go is difficult is that my W did not pull away from until the day she told me that she was leaving me. So the lack of communication from her is driving me crazy. So I was and still am a little shell shocked. The mail issue is that she still has mail, though reducing coming to my (our) house and she picks it up most times before I get home. When she works nights is when I see her mail still being delivered. So I think I will leave the mailbox alone no since in pi$$ing her off unnecesaarily and only change it if and when legal action is taken.
I think I will not send the b-day email. I let her go so that means she is gone from my life. If I send her the email all I do is send her conflicting messages. She has to know that I am gone out of her life. I have been reading gucci's thread on letting go and trying to absorb the knowledge. I am getting better and with each day and I feel better. I went from a size 44/46 waist to a 36 heading for 34 so buying new clothes is getting expensive.
We did take pictures of the three of us rock climbing and plan to post on Fb. My W has access to my Fb page (the profile and post page), though I would not know if she is looking, but if she is she can see that I am moving on.
