I hate weekends, too. It means I have to see H which makes it so much harder to let go. If I never had to see him again then, maybe, I will be able to detach and let go.
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I think we must not be galing enough on the weekends! We need to keep busier so we are so dang tired when we go to bed that we don't think about our S's!!!!
On the horoscope thing....what SA said! There is also truth to when there is a full moon and people acting strangely!
Mila...you are sounding very good!
(((punkin))) That is all I can say!
SA you are being the "go to" girl this weekend...putting out very wise words!!!!
TAMF It really hurts when they don't see the kids and act like it is no big deal.
Mystik I haven't seen my husband for 6 weeks and it hasn't been any easier to let go!
Hope we all have better weeks!!!
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CW- sorry that I have been behind but will be able to catch up I hope. I know this sounds weird, but it makes me feel good to know that someone so positive like yourself also has down times Do you know what I mean?
The TIMELINE....is like that straight stretch of freeway in the desert where we can't see past the horizon but we know eventually it merges or changes or something.
Any interesting dreams lately?
Making good money on the job? I am going to check my horoscope now!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
The TIMELINE....is like that straight stretch of freeway in the desert where we can't see past the horizon but we know eventually it merges or changes or something.
I like that analogy. So very accurate.
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Job went very well Friday night..I don't work there again until the 17th
The kids and I are heading to my home town this weekend for their annual celebration! My brother and his family live out there and my BFF. BFF is going thru empty nest syndrome! Her one and only left for college a couple of weeks ago! It is funny cause when I was out there in July, she couldn't WAIT for him to leave!
I pointed out to her that she has never, ever lived alone! Her and I roommed together after HS, the she and her boyfriend moved in together and married. He died 6yrs ago but she has had son at home! She is dating someone but she said that she is glad that they have their respective houses to go back to and really can't imagine being M again at this point!
Been kinda having a rough time so have been trying to keep myself busy all week! I now have my kitchen in order and will be a lot easier to pack if/when we have to move in the future! Does a person really need 6 bread pans???
Vacation is going too fast and I am not the superwoman I thought I was according to my list of things to get done but I am happy with what I have accomplished so far and am looking forward to some play time this weekend!
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Been kinda having a rough time so have been trying to keep myself busy all week!
I know how you feel mi amiga! Still in my funk from last friday. Ughhh!!!!! I too have been busy like a little squirrel getting ready for winter----working WAY too much (like you!) and I know that this affects my attitude, not to mention a meeting with my financial planner yesterday afternoon. Double Ughhhhhhh!!!! If it's any consolation, he said that lots of people are in the same boat right now.
Please, please, please play and have fun this weekend! You DESERVE it!!!!!!! I challenge you to a 'fun-down' and I expect a report on monday.
How's your GAL going??????????? Thought it might be time for a little 'trash-talking'. Do you have any surprises up your sleeve????????
I had an inauspicious start to my 'fun-down'. Worked for 3 hours to complete on-line CPR training that I need for my re-licensure this month. Ughhhhhhh!!!!!!! Then trimming the hedges...........BUT.............I have a supersecret plan for tomorrow that if I manage to get my 'rear in gear' will hopefully win me bonus points. ..........So get OUT there and GAL girl!!!!! I'll be waiting to hear your report on monday.
Do you have any surprises up your sleeve???????? 
..........So get OUT there and GAL girl!!!!! I'll be waiting to hear your report on monday.