Through my notoriously accurate powers of deduction, ive concluded that H is having a holiday with an OW overseas as we speak.
A month or so pre bomb, H was working late in the office, and I went in to ask him why he was up so late, as I came in I obviously surprised him, and he quickly closed the laptop. I saw just before he closed it he was skyping somone. I asked him why he closed his computer, he said he got a fright thats all (ya right), and I asked him who it was and he said a girl from the US office for the company he works for - they were talking about one of his hobbies. So I left it at that, but had a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. And said to him I feel strange over whats just happened, he said dont be silly, so i said I just dont want to be one of those wives that dont have a clue. He said no you are not stupid, its nothing like that. For some reason I let it go. And a month later. Bang. Bomb drops.
So now he is in the US in this city where she is, and for the first time in H's history, he has gone 'dark'. Offline, cell off for 5 days, not even his best friend knows where he is or what hes doing (or so he says).
H has NEVER ever done this. He has never been unavailable or unreachable to me or his business.
It is VERY out of character.
It also explains why he was offering me all these wonderful gifts before he left.
He told his company (hes the MD) that hed be 'going off radar' for a few days. This coming from a man who would sit on skype just to make sure all his employees were online and at their desks when he was away!!!
