TH,

I know by reading all of the posts that over analyzing is a symptom of us LBS's have. My issue is that I have only two actions from her since she left and both seemed to follow after I told her that I was letting her go and stopping communication (email) to her. My gut says to send a simple email the day of her b-day and leaving the mailbox alone.

However, I do have sensitive mail coming to my home from my IC and she does not need access to that. And in the future is legal action begins she defintely does not need access.

So you advise the email and leave the mailbox alone?