then I want to get rid of negative feelings that my W has of me
Dude, you are all screwed up, and this statement proves it. You can't control your wife's feelings about things that have already happned. You should be acting with the idea that "I am going to do what is right" regardless of the outcome.
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She does not know she can forward mail
She doesn't? Are you sure? I have known you can do that since I was about 6 years old. Are you just desperate and mind-reading?
Letting go is for you and her. If she wants to go, the only thing you CAN do is agree with her. NC gives you time to heal, but you aren't healing. You have been obsessing about these two, tiny things for almost a week!
You need to focus more on your self, doing things that will make you feel better about yourself, and taking care of business. How's the workout routine going?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/07/1011:30 AM.
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