Wonderful posts. The posts about OW ring so true in my case also. They are so manipulative and cunning, but the ML'ers are too blind to see them for what they truly are. The OW will be my ex's downfall and demise.
Some people are just self-destructive by nature. There is nothing we can do to help them. This is the path of emptiness they take. I am convinced that no matter what I would have done, ex would be down the same road. There are certain things ingrained in people that have to play out.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11