I love your mushroom cake! Clever clever! I hear you on not wanting to be too mean before divorce is finalized (just in case of backlash) but there are some cases where the numbers speak for themselves and fair is fair.

So happy to hear your S is into music! I also would totally let my S ding and drum away--it is so impressive that yours is showing interest since 9 months? And the beat is the heart of music, don't you think? And if he can learn to dance he will also be able to swoon a lady one day...don't we all secretly want to be swept away onto the dance floor? (not club dancing!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004