So get there and his parents couldn't stick around to see the kids because they thought it might be too "uncomfortable". So what part of having my H of 22 years leave me for his mistress makes it uncomfortable to be around me??? And wouldn't you think that since I have been their DIL for this long they would have called to see how I was, since I am all alone trying to raise their grandchildren? I don't get it, doesn't anyone stand up and say to H, what you are doing is wrong? And even though you screwed up, we still want a relationship with our DIL?
Just remember...you have no idea what he told his parents. He probably concocted some story to make him look like a shining star and you the bad guy. And for all you know, he told them to leave before you got there. Maybe he didn't want you telling them what was really going on. I know it sucks but they are his parents...and always will be. They won't ever give up on him no matter how bad he screws up.
This is true. My MIL knows about OW, has known, but was covering for H to me. I want to be mad at her, I want to rage at her, "why the hell would you think this is a good idea! How can you be ok with this?" But I don't know what he told her. The same with his sister, this chick was one of my best friends, suddenly she won't answer phone calls, texts, she deleted me from her facebook, all of this before she supposedly knew about the D. I want to be mad at her too, but I have no clue what H said to her. I can't be mad at them when they're probably being just as decieved as I am.
I had a great laugh out of the switching teams comment!
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
