WAW Wants to Be Alone

[CD Bear]

Faith-

It's gonna be tough to do especially face to face. So I would avoid those situations. e.g tough to confront you at home if you're not there.

Is there a time frame to keep in mind or just stay dark all the way til Divorce day - 9/30?

I guess what I'm asking is, am I trying draw her to come to me/write me/tell me the truth after a few weeks? Or am I sending the message I'm going out of this marriage with my self respect? Or both?

Q1- Dark til you have legal matters. But this depends most on your next question-

Ask yourself:

Knowing what you know now and how you feel about the lying (YOUR PERSONAL BOUNDARY) do YOU REALLY want to draw her out and get the truth (you already know it-her version will be guilt covering lies again anyway)

OR

Send the message (most importantly TO YOU)I'm going out of this marriage with my self respect?