Thanks Tornado. I heard about EMDR. I think my combat stress is mostly under control. I still have issues with being in crowds or having my back exposed. But I am working on that.
My S11 emphasized how much I have changed when I was with the boys this Labor Day weekend. He said I don't yell anymore, I am always calm, and I regained my sense of humor. That's an accurate assessment from S11...

JR


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11