I don't know if you believe in God or the scriptures, but I believe God made the male to be the initiator and the female the responder. If you'll notice, the animal kingdom is that way, too.
I think the H gets a thrill when the W initiates but in your case, something doesn't seem right. Does he want to be the "responder" that much?
Him using this as his excuse for an A is crazy! You said you never turned him down, but he's saying that isn't good enough for him...so he'll have an A!
Well, you can find a lot of good people here on the board to help you. Just stick with us and come back every day to talk to us, okay?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
