Thanks 40,

I have been off the board for a while. My W is not a bad parent, but my kids miss me a lot, thats obvious. I am starting to come to the realization that my W just wants out of this M. She wants to be friends, which right now I have no reason not to be. There is not OM, she has been nice( most of the time) so why be hateful? I do miss some things about her, but at the same time I am not curled up in a corner being a baby about this. What does that say? Where are my feelings of I cant live without her? not really there i guess. I need to really look at why I miss her, bcuz I have not been totally lost right now without her,