Hey Ash, I think at this point nothing would surprise M&D. And you are right, who knows what H told them. So will you call them and tell them the truth?

Mishka, I could easily stay up here. I realized when I got here, I don't miss the nice house or nice neighborhood, I'll take my comfortable old place any time. I'm staying there for the kids, S13 is very happy with his soccer program and he also doesn't want to move back here too quickly as Southern schools started 4 weeks before Northern schools, he doesn't want the extra schooling. I also need to find out if there are any legal ramifications to me just taking the kids and moving back. I'll work on answering that question this week. I also see my IC of past this week and will talk to her about if the kids need to stay near their dad and for how long. I am afraid of having too many changes made in their life that they can't process. But they had a great time here this weekend. I am going to still stick to the Christmas break plan when I re-evaluate everything, but I'm sure working on knowing the ramifications of every action for which I have a to make a decision (now Puppy is having me rearrange sentences to avoid ending with a preposition, gosh even posting is getting complicated).

So, maybe I just won't plan to have a long term R with the other team, just use them for sex. I wonder how that works? I'm sure someone would be willing to show me the ropes. smile


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW