Originally Posted By: Dagny-2
So get there and his parents couldn't stick around to see the kids because they thought it might be too "uncomfortable". So what part of having my H of 22 years leave me for his mistress makes it uncomfortable to be around me??? And wouldn't you think that since I have been their DIL for this long they would have called to see how I was, since I am all alone trying to raise their grandchildren? I don't get it, doesn't anyone stand up and say to H, what you are doing is wrong? And even though you screwed up, we still want a relationship with our DIL?


Just remember...you have no idea what he told his parents. He probably concocted some story to make him look like a shining star and you the bad guy. And for all you know, he told them to leave before you got there. Maybe he didn't want you telling them what was really going on. I know it sucks but they are his parents...and always will be. They won't ever give up on him no matter how bad he screws up.


Originally Posted By: Dagny-2

And I also had a revelation last night, since this marriage thing isn't working out so well, I've decided I'm going to switch teams when it is all done.


Please give me forewarning before you break the news to Mom and Dad.


Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10