KellBell, start the 5k, in the fun forum I post what the challenge is for each week, so since you are logged on you can easily go find it. And yes, detaching makes it easier, but it sure isn't a cake walk, though.

Venting: H had a convulted plan for today, but the plan was to meet at the airport, his parents would bring him and I would bring the kids. So get there and his parents couldn't stick around to see the kids because they thought it might be too "uncomfortable". So what part of having my H of 22 years leave me for his mistress makes it uncomfortable to be around me??? And wouldn't you think that since I have been their DIL for this long they would have called to see how I was, since I am all alone trying to raise their grandchildren? I don't get it, doesn't anyone stand up and say to H, what you are doing is wrong? And even though you screwed up, we still want a relationship with our DIL? Good Lord, I am spitting nails and I am very tempted to call them and tell them how dissapointed I am in them, because at this point, I don't have anything to lose. And I also had a revelation last night, since this marriage thing isn't working out so well, I've decided I'm going to switch teams when it is all done.

Dagny


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW