What do you have to lose at this point. I would say still change the locks, and go darker than dark until the hearing. Dont offer for her to see the dogs, let her come to you. I would just remove yourself from all this going forward. It is kind of what I have done, I have removed myself from the W's bs. When she has crap behavior i do not put up with it, when she is nice I am nice. Again our sitches are different, with kids it makes it to where you can go somewhat dark, but you also "have" to interact with each other for the rest of your lives.
But you also have an up here, you need to get the GAL and PMA going beyond belief right now!
Hello Dsh,
I need to lose the pain. I need to lose my anger and resentment. I'm trying with all my heart. I've prayed for self control all day. Took the dogs out for long walk and STILL couldn't lose it. I was bad when she first dropped the bomb, but NO WHERE near the level of pain I feel right now.
I'm not going to contact her at all, just stand back up, dust myself off and keep GAL; keep praying for PMA.
If she does come forward, I will act as if I'm ok, but I'm pretty peeved. I understand why she left and felt the way she did, but I do not understand the lying...it's just wrong. There's something not sitting right with me, and I'm trying to figure out what it is. It's eating me up too.
