According to Dr. Dobson, things are not always as clear cut as they may seem in the mind of the WAS. They are capable of second and third thoughts but will they act on them? Just try not to get get too attached to any particular outcome. On the face of it, it sounds positive that he sounds unsure but with WAS and MLCers up is down and down is up. I think they shift in the wind until they firmly decide on a definitive course of action. They at times appear confused, at times resolute. Just don't let them confuse YOU. The game is entirely almost mental at this stage.
Love Must be Tough doesn't address MLC, just infidelity in general and suggests a course of action for the WAS.
I am not sure how you go about attracting your H again.I think having a strong, confident attitude is a starting point. Dressing well and smelling good also work.
I just got in and will grab a bite to eat and post more later.
