Thanks for the advice. I am not going to meet him tomorrow. So I will find a friend/family member who can forward me the details - how much is the rent, how long is the lease, what does he estimate for utilities, etc. What other questions? Or should I just file for separation?
I feel like this whole thing is spiralling out of control. I no longer believe my story will have a happy ending with H. And if it ends in D, I would like to try to remain amicable for the sake of the kids. But I don't think I can even get there with H without some kind of counseling. I met with L last week and got the facts/figures on child/spousal support (considering that our D would be equal and agreed to by both parties). I didn't like what I heard. So it's likely to turn into a battle. This sucks.
