Sometimes it means more to a person when someone expresses extreme disappointment in them, rather than anger. I think you should let her know that you are very disappointed in her. After however many years together you thought you could trust her to be truthful with you. Now you see how she outright lied to you and disrespected all that the two of you ever meant to each other, and you are done with her. You don't want to see her anymore. She can give her lies to other people in her life, but you are not listening to them anymore.
I did express that in my email. I don't know what to do other than ignore her now.
I'm so betrayed and just want to know why she lied. I know there is no logic to be found because that's the way it is with a WAW. Does NO good to dwell on it, but here I am. I feel like she cut my heart out and stomped it repeatedly.
Now that her piece of cake has been slapped out of her mouth, I don't know how to think anymore. The only thing I know is I'm done with her "crap behavior"!
Truth is out now about lies and OM. They're is no longer the ability for her to deceive me, I would imagine she probably knows how bad she looked, and this has to effect their relationship in some negative way.
Maybe the THRILL of it all for her has been crushed? Maybe now reality will sink in? Do I do anything right now to shove her reality down her throat in the kindest way possible?
Ignoring her seems too little...but that's why I'm here until I read something and it clicks. I'm pro-tough love, but I'm a little unclear as how to apply it now, except no more contact.
