According to Sandi2's post(diff thread) she has been cake eating the whole time. Blatantly. Knowingly playing me because she thought she had it all under control and me blind.
Now the cake fell on the floor. My gut is telling me to stand up and demand respect for myself, but I don't know how right now. How do I send a clear message to her that I will not tolerate her behavior.
Letting her go is easy, but how do I walk away with dignity? I don't want to punish her, but I want her to feel the true loss. Home, Dogs, Me, whatever I can create as an abyss.
I believe my sitch is now what all the other infidelity threads are about...that "Love" drug feeling thing.