I've busted my W's lies and KNOW there is a OM now. She blatantly lied 3 hours before the bust. Many of you have provided great advice and I'm not trying to repeat myself or wallow, but rather summarize all my questions.
1) Do I cut her off from seeing our dogs?
2) Do I cut off access to the house?
3) Do I waste my money on a Lawyer if my Dissolution is going to be final in 24 days?
4) Besides protecting myself, would a Lawyer be a firm approach on her crap behavior and showing her that I will not tolerate it or be dis-respected?
5) What is her reaction going to be now that she's been busted on the lies?
6) Do I just say screw it all and IGNORE her until 9/30 and then just walk away from everything?
Sorry guys/gals...I'm just trying to get my head straight.
Treat your dogs like you would kids.
Is this house in her name? I'd at least change the locks, then move to either buy her out (depending on your asset split in the dissolution) or sell the house.
I wouldn't waste more money on a lawyer when it's done in 24 hours.
She won't care about the lies.
#6 is the correct thing to do. Don't be mean, vindictive or petty. Just be Faith. Be cool, make it clear she's no longer a part of your life, and move on. If you run into her for some reason, be super cool, like you just had the best time of your life right before you bumped into her.
