Originally Posted By: FaithnAK


Detaching, when you're a recovering Nice Guy is really hard. NC is easy, but really detaching is hard. I'll just continue to pray and work on me, eventually this will all pass.



Being a "Nice Guy" doesn't mean being a doormat. A nice guy listens well, cares about other people, is thoughtful and considerate and kind. Being a nice guy doesn't mean being a loser. A loser is someone with no self respect, no self love.