Thanks for the book recs. I do have passive aggressive tendencies and am trying to break those patterns. I will definitely read them. It gets confusing because even doing the LRT and pulling away could in some ways be seen to be passive aggressive as well. But I want to and have no choice but to use this time to pick up the pieces and focus on myself and being better and doing better. It's tough because doing so mentally and emotionally means admitting that it's over which I am having a hard time accepting.
You're very Welcome. I will tell you, it will be a huge eye opener.
You will see the differences between the LRT and bad behavior.
It's not over. Seek out the information while you wait and make an informed decision. Just look at this time period as a gift to better yourself. It's important for YOU to fix yourself before you try and save the marriage. Saving the marriage should be a by-product of bettering yourself. Just read them and post ANYTHING here first...NO PURSUING.
