Sol, glad to hear you had a good time at the wedding. See you're making great progress...you could talk about your sitch without much trouble. That's a good sign!
I won't even bother mind-reading the greek he wrote. He wants you to feel more confused that's my take on it. He likes playing these games. If he has something to say why not be a man and say it without mincing words. But it doesn't matter what he says or does anyway...they're liars and even in the book Michele says 'don't believe anything they say and only half of what they do' - that says you something right there.
Also as I've said before Sun who cares what he does in his life? it changes nothing for you. You have to focus on your life from here on out. They're one messed up kind of people who do horrible things and yes seeing other people is not too far fetched to expect from them. But you can't tell him how he should live his life just like he can't tell you how you should live yours! So don't torture yourself by worrying about things you can't control. Make your life comfortable and fun for you. That should be your priority.
Now on to more important things...
A cute lab partner who's been divorced? care to ellaborate? I'm wondering if someone's been keeping secrets!
What are you studying btw? I mean in class not in the lab
And yes I don't think I'll get married again either...but you know...I like to think I'm flexible enough that for the right person/reasons I might. I don't want to come out of this so jaded that I can't see another woman without doubting her.
Enjoy your party!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again