Thanks everyone for your replies. I pretty much thought this. But for some reason I feel so much weaker now than I ever have. It has really been hard to grasp the trauma thing I was caught between am I supposed to be understanding on this or is thisn"fear" like a smoke screen or something. Yesterday, I tried like a cold shoulder, in the time we had before he went to work. I tried to act like I pretty much didnt care - that prompted a phone call on his drive to work and questions about why am I pushing him away and he is trying. Do I need some IC also, or do yall' think the boundry setting will be enough. Do we both need go to counseling seperately or together?
M-42 H-40 DS-11 Discovery:8/17/10 ILBININWY:8/17/10 IC scheduled:9/13/10 MC scheduled:9/15/10
