I was trying to avoid saying, but yes the OP is a woman. I have already told her that it is her or me, not both. Wife says that she loves me, but also loves them. Maybe I am deluding myself by thinking she did indeed go to a friend's to think. Hardest part is the 6yo. She is, and has always been a mommie's girl. We bareley made it through this weekend and I don't know if I can handle her if she does not go with her mom.
