40,

Keep up the hard work. Reading threads like yours makes me realize I have it pretty easy. Eyes on the prize, your kids and keep your chin up.

One thing you said. You and you STBXW are in a custody fight. Are you sure she really knows this? Has she absorbed this fact? When you get to court, and ask for full custody (or whatever you decide on) is there a chance she will be surprised? Or at least act that way?

Obviously we only hear your side, but she just does not seem to be aware of the precarious position she seem to be placing herself in.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011