I admire both of your persistence, and also believe in the "no regrets on my deathbed" approach. I just do think one has to be really careful to do the hard work necessary to fully understand where "unconditional love" ends, and "co-dependency" begins. This is dangerously close, in my opinion:
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To me....the world doesn't make any sense without H being by my side.
I think it's healthy to WANT these things; it's generally considered unhealthy to NEED these things.
