MLC 5 years on

[Sanderika]

Hi Puppy,

It was easy.....

I truly love my husband. I love my family and I cannot imagine us not being a family. To me....the world doesn't make any sense without H being by my side. The love I feel for him is unconditional. I am a true stander. I have forgiven him 100s of times over. I have held out hope that he would be able to see what I see and feel what I feel. Unfortunately for me and my son, my H and (his father) does not believe that he can return to us. I am left devastated, whether it be 5 days or 5 years the pain is just as huge, I am left not knowing what to believe in anymore....

I did EVERYTHING I could do to save this marriage, I was respectful and maintained dignity....I lost him just the same....


Hello Mandy, thank you....

I very well may be describing your X.

In my case I have been able to befriend the OW's X-best friend (she took my place in my office)(they had a 27 year friendship until the OW burned her,(1 too many times btw). My conversations with her have been very enlightening. She has told me things about the OW I could only imagine seeing in the movies. I think in my case here, since she has professed her actual rocky relationship with my H in detail and ultimate goals to this friend, she will reel him in hook, line and sinker and then WHAMMO, it will be goodbye to my H. This OW does not have a history of long term relationships. She does have a history of being very manipulative and always getting what she wants.

I agree with you, these women are all from the same mold, they are desperate and cunning.

My H says he will not marry her....I think he will.

The rest of the story will be a very interesting read.....

I should commission a book, already have the title picked out....

Thank you,

Sanderika