Thanks for the replys. This waiting and having no control over the outcome is tearing me up. I understand what you are saying Pinhead, I just don't want to come off unconcerned and uncaring. I keep wanting to dwell on her coming home and saying that she wants to try to work it out with me. I think I will try to think this way for a while (it is hard, I do tend to dwell on the negative).
Jammed- So sorry you find yourself here.
Understandable you don't want to come off uncaring and unconcerned....but do you really want to roll over and take it? Telling her you will not live in an open marriage IS NOT you not caring, it is just the opposite. You care enough to try to save your M despite what she's done.
Don't sit around and wait for her to make a decision. Take control of your own life. Have you started to read any of Michelle's books? If not, start. Go to the book store or library today.
I'm not sure the best thing for you to do right now is sit and wait for her. Perhaps others will give their opinions on this...
Also, I hate to break it to you but you are fooling yourself if you think she didn't see OM.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
