Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

I hope you will use this opportunity to take a much firmer stance with your husband. As for OW, it sounds like you MAY want to talk to an atty about a possible restraining order? Seriously.

Thanks Puppy. I did think about a restraining order but it appears she has finally stopped. Her last attempt was a few weeks ago via email asking him why it had to end etc... He did not respond.

After he told me of the affair, he finally gave me access to the phone records, which if you remember, he had blocked me from when the A started. That was a big deal as he refused for so long, saying I just wanted to be nosy and "check up on him." Funny thing, in OW emails to him after he exposed the A, she kept referring to my "snooping." Guess those two had that in common...

And, yes, Puppy, it was recently our 18 year anniversary. We were actually both sick on the day so there wasn't much of a celebration.