Originally Posted By: bklynt
Yes I see that it is forcing her to make that decision and so is not leading.


Actually, no I don't think you quite get Puppy's point. I think the point is you've given her the choice. She HAS made a choice, she might change her mind but she HAS made it. Now YOU have to choose it a)wait until she comes around or b)you do the work to be happy w/o her. Your happiness is your choice, not hers.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011