I found Doodi's thread...similar indeed. It also kinda gives me an insight of what my W is thinking, going thru. My W is also codependent, on antidepressant medication. I'll keep reading.
JR
I'll have the go read this entire thread but wanted to ask you a quick question. Are you familiar with EMDR?
It is therapy used frequently for those that have been through traumatic experiences such as war, rape, robbery etc. My wife has significant anger issues caused by being raped on multiple occasions. She recently went through EMDR therapy and I believe it is helping. I recommend you look into it at your mental health facility or counselor.
